n the world of modern dating, the first questions people often ask are, “What do you do?” and “What do you bring to the table financially?”
It is an age of two-income households, where marriage is often treated like a merger between two corporations. But I am not a corporation. I am a wife in training.
As I embark on this 42-week journey to become a Sissy Housewife, I believe in total transparency. I am 72 years old. I am retired. I live on a fixed income. I am not writing this to ask for charity, but to be honest about the dynamic I am seeking.
If you are looking for a partner to help you pay the mortgage or double your investment portfolio, I am not the spouse for you. But if you are looking for a partner who offers a currency that has become almost extinct in the modern world, read on.
I Am Not Seeking Wealth; I Am Seeking a Provider
Let me be clear: I am not looking for a “sugar daddy” to buy me frivolous things for no reason. I am looking for a Husband and a Provider.
In the 1950s ideal that I emulate, there was a sacred exchange:
• The Husband provided the security, the shelter, and the resources.
• The Wife provided the sanctuary, the softness, and the service.
I am looking for a man who values this exchange. I am seeking a Patriarch who understands that my financial dependence on him is not a burden, but the very thing that allows me to surrender. When I do not have to worry about “hustling” for a paycheck, I can dedicate 100% of my energy to you.
What I Offer Is Priceless
Because I am not chasing a career or financial status, I can offer you something that a modern, high-earning woman cannot: My Time and My Focus.
• I offer a “User-Centric” Home: Because I am not tired from a 9-to-5 job, I have the energy to ensure your home is spotless, your dinner is hot, and your environment is peaceful.
• I offer “Anticipatory Service”: My “work” is you. My mind is not cluttered with spreadsheets; it is focused on anticipating your needs before you voice them.
• I offer “Total Readiness”: My lack of a career means I am always on “standby,” ready to be used for your pleasure or comfort the moment you walk through the door.
The Treasure of a Devoted Heart
My dream is not one of yachts or mansions. My dream is a comfortable chair for you, a warm meal on the table, and me at your feet.
I am offering a treasure that money cannot buy: a heart that is totally devoted to your happiness and a life that is built entirely around your needs. I am looking for a man who knows the value of coming home to a wife who has spent her entire day preparing just for him.
I will not bring riches to your bank account. But I promise to bring a richness to your life that you have never experienced before.
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